When you get along with others, treat yourself as a nobody; and when you get along with yourself, treat yourself as a somebody.
Those with too much “ego” actually value themselves in other people’ eyes. They will immediately fall into hell with a contemptuous look. They will always feel that others have ignored their own feelings and hurt their self-esteem. Such people despise themselves when they look at themselves, and they cannot see the value of their life without the eyes of others.
Life is like autumn leaves swaying in the wind. No matter how strong the summer wind is, it will not blow the vigorous green leaves. Autumn leaves losing their nutrients means they must fall. This has nothing to do with the wind.