👀💪🔍 The best way to comfort yourself is to look at others’ shortcomings, and the best way to encourage yourself is to look at your own strengths. // 宽慰自己的最好方法是多看别人短处，鼓励自己的最好方法是多看自己长处。 Kuānwèi zìjǐ de zuì hǎo fāngfǎ shì duō kàn biérén duǎnchu, gǔlì zìjǐ de zuì hǎo fāngfǎ shì duō kàn zìjǐ chángchu. // Khoan úy tự … Read more
😎🛋️🚫 You have neither social fear nor communication barriers. You’re just too lazy to meet people you don’t want to meet, and too lazy to deal with things you don’t want to deal. // 不是社交恐惧，也没有交流障碍，就是懒得认识一些不想认识的人，懒得应付一些不想应付的事。 Bùshì shèjiāo kǒngjù, yě méiyǒu jiāoliú zhàng’ài, jiùshì lǎndé rènshí yīxiē bùxiǎng rènshí de rén, lǎndé yìngfù yīxiē bùxiǎng yìngfù … Read more
👀⛰️⬇️ What you can see is your state of life. You always see people who are better than yourself means that you are going uphill; you always see people who are inferior to yourself means that you are going downhill. // 你的目光所及，就是你的人生境界。总是看到比自己优秀的人，说明你正在走上坡路；总是看到不如自己的人，说明你正在走下坡路。 Nǐ de mùguāng suǒ jí, jiùshì nǐ de rénshēng jìngjiè. Zǒng shì kàn … Read more
1. Among what I’ve skimmed throughout November 2021, I suggest these 5 books: – How to Be Alone by Sara Maitland – The Cult of We by Eliot Brown and Maureen Farrell – The Comfort Book by Matt Haig. I picked this as one of the best books of the year. It was also nominated … Read more
💑❤️🤝 In fact, we just want to find someone who is comfortable together, miss a little after a long time apart, want to make a fuss after being quiet for a long time, and who will immediately regret after a fight. Love is like this, so is friendship. // 其实，我们只是想找一个在一起舒坦、分开久了有点想念，安静久了想闹腾一下、吵架了又立马会后悔认输的人 。爱情如此，友情同理 。 Qíshí, wǒmen … Read more