Be Your Strength

No one will give you a shoulder, no one will be strong for you

💪🌍🌟 No one will give you a shoulder, no one will be strong for you. “No matter who you are, the world will be the same. The true understanding of this sentence is: You must be strong, so strong that others dare not do anything to you. ​​​​ // 没人给你肩膀,没人替你坚强。“你怎么样,世界就怎么样”,这句话的真正理解是:你必须强大,强大到别人不敢对你怎么样。 ​​​​ Méi rén gěi nǐ … Read more

Skills Matter

If you have no consideration and no ability, no matter how many people you know, it's useless

🎯💡📈 If you have no consideration and no ability, no matter how many people you know, it’s useless. Networking will only give you opportunities, but seizing opportunities still depends on your real ability. So, cultivating yourself is more important than welcoming others everywhere. ​​ // 自己肚子里没有料,手上没本事,认识再多人也没用。人脉只会给你机会,但抓住机会还是要靠真本事。所以啊,修炼自己,比到处逢迎别人重要的多。 ​​​​ Zìjǐ dùzi lǐ méiyǒu liào, shǒu shàng méi … Read more

Effective Communication

It's useless to be angry, the problem still needs to be solved

😤🗣️🤝 It’s useless to be angry, the problem still needs to be solved. It’s no use sulking, you still have to tell each other face to face. Understanding without saying is tacit. Understanding after saying is respect. Not understanding after saying is passerby. // 光生气是没有用的,问题还是要解决。光生闷气也是没有用的,还是要面对面告诉对方。不说就懂,是默契。说了才懂,是尊重。说了还不懂,是路人。 Guāngshēngqì shì méiyǒu yòng de, wèntí háishì yào jiějué. Guāng … Read more

Parallel Lines

Two people with different views are like two parallel lines that never intersect

🧠🚧💔 Two people with different views are like two parallel lines that never intersect. You’re not wrong, she/he is not wrong, but it’s wrong when you get together. // 三观不合的两个人,在一起就像两条永不相交的平行线,你没有错,TA也没有错,但凑在一起就是错。 ​ Sān guān bùhé de liǎng gèrén, zài yīqǐ jiù xiàng liǎng tiáo yǒng bù xiàngjiāo de píngxíng xiàn, nǐ méiyǒu cuò, TA yě méiyǒu … Read more

Emotional Silence

The end of human emotion is not swearing or venting; it is silence

😶🤫🔚 The end of human emotion is not swearing or venting; it is silence. // 人情绪的尽头不是脏话也不是发泄,是沉默。 Rén qíngxù de jìntóu bùshì zānghuà yě bùshì fāxiè, shì chénmò. // Nhân tình tự đích tận đầu bất thị tạng thoại dã bất thị phát tiết, thị trầm mặc. // Sự kết thúc của cảm xúc con người … Read more

Problem Solving

There are three ways to solve all problems

3️⃣🧠💡 There are three ways to solve all problems. Accept, change, leave. If you can’t accept it, change it; if you can’t change it, then leave it. // 有三个方法可以解决所有的问题。接受,改变,离开。不能接受 那就改变,不能改变 那就离开。 Yǒusān gè fāngfǎ kěyǐ jiějué suǒyǒu de wèntí. Jiēshòu, gǎibiàn, líkāi. Bùnéng jiēshòu nà jiù gǎibiàn, bùnéng gǎibiàn nà jiù líkāi. // Hữu tam … Read more

Peaceful Days

Twelve months of leisure's grace, Thirty-six thousand days I embrace

📅🍃😌 Twelve months of leisure’s grace, Thirty-six thousand days I embrace. Content heart, far from the fray, No fame or fortune’s lure I chase. Tranquil paths, my chosen way. // 一年十二个悠闲月, 三万六千和缓日。 心怀深情自得意, 纵使他方马蹄声。 不图虚名与利道。 Yī nián shí’èr gè yōuxián yuè, sān wàn liùqiān héhuǎn rì. Xīnhuái shēnqíng zì déyì, zòngshǐ tāfāng mǎtí shēng. Bù … Read more

Mind Your Own Business

Your life is like chicken feathers scattering all over the ground

🐔🍃🙄 Your life is like chicken feathers scattering all over the ground, you still have time to bother about others’ businesses. // 自己的生活一地鸡毛, 还整天议论操心别人。 Zìjǐ de shēnghuó yī dì jīmáo, hái zhěng tiān yìlùn cāoxīn biérén. // Tự kỷ đích sinh hoạt nhất địa kê mao, hoàn chỉnh thiên nghị luận thao tâm biệt nhân. … Read more

Communication

Some things need to be said, don't wait for the other person to understand

🗣️💔⏳ Some things need to be said, don’t wait for the other person to understand, because they are not you and don’t know what you want. Waiting until the end will only lead to heartache and disappointment, especially in matters of the heart. // 有些事情是要说出来的,不要等着对方去领悟,因为对方不是你,不知道你想要什么,等到最后只能是伤心和失望,尤其是感情。 Yǒuxiē shìqíng shì yào shuō chūlái de, bùyào děngzhe duìfāng … Read more