Zi Wei Dou Shu Q: Is it true love or infatuation? 💕🤔💫
A: You might feel struck by love at first sight—only to realize after living together that your partner is not who you thought they were. At the start of a relationship, it’s often hard to distinguish between true love and mere infatuation. Temporary emotions can lead you to give your heart away too soon, only to face betrayal or disappointment later when your partner’s true nature surfaces.
In Purple Star Astrology, every step on your destiny path is influenced by destiny, and every love story unfolds as part of that design. Understanding yourself deeply is key to making wise decisions in love.
1. Major Star Alone in the Spouse Palace
If your Spouse palace features only a major star, without supportive stars like Wen Chang, Wen Qu, or Hua stars, relationships can feel like “you may encounter love but cannot seek it out.” This is especially true when Tian Ji appears in the Spouse palace and no major stars occupy the Mental palace.
2. Spouse Palace Holds Tai Yin, Di Kong, and Di Jie
If your chart leans toward introversion, marriage can feel like running a marathon—you’ll need patience and emotional stamina.
3. Spouse Palace Flanked by Zuo Fu and You Bi
Your partner is likely to possess exceptional qualities, and your destiny may bring blessings to them as well. However, if only a single star occupies the palace without auspicious stars or transformative aspects, it can leave you wondering where or how a suitable partner might appear.
Especially when Zuo Fu and You Bi flank the Spouse palace without any major star, even if you experience love, it might slip away because the partner cannot stay in your Spouse Palace for long. As a result, the chance of marriage could be delayed even more than if Huo Xing and Ling Xing flank the Spouse palace, or when Di Kong and Di Jie surround it.
That said, although delayed compared to those two cases, this arrangement is more fortunate. Zuo Fu and You Bi help protect you from blind infatuation, making your sincere love the very reason someone chooses to stay.
4. Spouse Palace Has Hua Ji
If your Life, Wealth, Career, Health, Property, or Mental palace has Hua Lu, or if Hua Lu appears in the Siblings, Children, Travel, Servants, or Parents palace, but your Spouse palace has Hua Ji, then marriage will likely face shortcomings. However, the depth of suffering and sense of loss will vary depending on the overall chart.
Especially when Hua Lu is found in the Happiness, Career, or Travel palace, and Hua Ji appears in the Spouse palace, your emotional thoughts and affections tend to be devoted entirely to your partner. This often results in a strong sense of responsibility and willingness to shoulder the burdens of love.
5. Life Palace Holds Tai Yin with Di Jie and Di Kong
Your emotional nature may be overly passive, regardless of whether Tai Yin goes with Hua Lu, Hua Ke, or Hua Ji. Only Hua Quan can balance this passivity.
6. Life Palace Has Hua Lu
You’re emotionally rich and naturally magnetic, but this heightened sensitivity makes you vulnerable to sudden infatuations, especially in youth when reason struggles to control feelings.
7. Life Palace Has Hua Quan
You act immediately on feelings, with high ambition and a strong sense of pride. This can lead to early unrequited love, driven by impulsive decisions. If your Spouse palace contains Hua Ji, love may be fraught with misunderstandings, emotional fatigue, or resentment—sometimes even leading to regrettable consequences.
8. Siblings Palace Contains Zi Wei
If your Siblings palace holds Zi Wei, your partner’s family background might not be strong, but their parents could exert overwhelming authority. If your own destiny doesn’t hold significant strength, their family dynamics might overpower you, leaving you feeling dominated within the relationship.
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