😊🤝👀 I agree with Camus’s words: “If we want to be happy, we must not pay too much attention to others.” // 认同加缪的一句话：“想要快乐，我们一定不能太关注别人。” Rèntóng jiā móu de yījù huà: “Xiǎng yào kuàilè, wǒmen yīdìng bùnéng tài guānzhù biérén.” // Nhận đồng gia mâu đích nhất cú thoại: “Tưởng yếu khoái lạc, ngã môn nhất … Read more
😌🤐😊 When frustration comes, treat it patiently, and you will not suffer from frustration. When satisfaction comes, treat it lightly, and you won’t be confused by satisfaction. —— Zeng Guofan // 失意事来，治之以忍，方不为失意所苦。快心事来，处之以淡，方不为快心所惑。——曾国藩 Shīyì shì lái, zhìzhī yǐ rěn, fāng bù wéi shīyì suǒ kǔ. Kuài xīnshì lái, chǔ zhī yǐ dàn, fāng bù wéi … Read more
📆😔😅 Stop blaming 2022. It was really bad, and it brought us many unexpected regrets and sorrows. But in the past countless years, time has proved that “wonderful” and “terrible” go hand in hand forever. // 不要再责怪2022年了。它的确糟糕，带给我们许多难以预料的遗憾和悲伤。可是在过去的无数个年月里，时间证明「精彩极了」和「糟糕透了」，永远相伴而行。 Bùyào zài zéguài 2022 niánle. Tā díquè zāogāo, dài gěi wǒmen xǔduō nàn yǐ yùliào de yíhàn hé … Read more
💔🚶♂️🌄 One day, you will let go of your current persistence and reluctance, and start a new life without that person with a little regret. // 总会有那么一天，你会放下如今的执着和不舍，带着稍许的遗憾，去开始过没有那个人的新生活。 Zǒng huì yǒu nàme yītiān, nǐ huì fàngxià rújīn de zhízhuó hé bù shě, dàizhe shāoxǔ de yíhàn, qù kāishǐguò méiyǒu nàgè rén de xīn shēnghuó. // Sẽ … Read more
⏪🤔➡️ Actually, there is nothing to regret. Even if many things can be done over again in time, with the mind and experience at that time, we will still make the same choices and cannot avoid the same results. // 其实没什么好后悔的。很多事就算时间能重来一遍，以当时的心智和阅历，还是会做同样的选择，避免不了同样的结果。 Qíshí méishénme hǎo hòuhuǐ de. Hěnduō shì jiùsuàn shíjiān néng chóng lái yībiàn, yǐ … Read more
🏠👣👩👧 Now I know that my safe haven is no longer my home, nor my parents, but a person who is used to being lonely and free. Girls grow up without a home. // 现在我知道了，我的避风港再也不是家，也不是父母，而是一个人习惯了孤独自由，女孩子长大了是没家的。 Xiànzài wǒ zhīdàole, wǒ de bìfēnggǎng zài yě bùshì jiā, yě bùshì fùmǔ, ér shì yīgè rén xíguànle gūdú zìyóu, … Read more
🌳🏠🔥 Self-cultivation is not for others to see and feel, but a gift for yourself. It’s like repairing a simple and lonely cabin. When it’s cold, you have to make your own fire. When it’s hot, you have to open the window to enjoy the cool air, have fresh food, and throw garbage out of … Read more
🏞️🤝🗺️ People, like two kingdoms, should each maintain a broad, natural and moderate territory. Even between borders, there should be a neutral zone. — Chen Guo, “Good Loneliness” // 人与人，就像两个王国，各自应当保持着宽阔、自然而适度的疆域。甚至在疆界之间，要有一个中立地带。——陈果《好的孤独》 Rén yǔ rén, jiù xiàng liǎng gè wángguó, gèzì yīngdāng bǎochízhe kuānkuò, zìrán ér shìdù de jiāngyù. Shènzhì zài jiāngjiè zhī jiān, yào yǒu … Read more
💔💧🌅 I like a sentence: I passed away last night, and my heart felt like water when I left. I was born again this morning, with a warm heart when I came. // 喜欢一句话：我于昨晚去世，走时心如止水。我于今早重生，来时心怀暖阳。 Xǐhuān yījù huà: Wǒ yú zuó wǎn qùshì, zǒushí xīnrúzhǐshuǐ. Wǒ yú jīn zǎo chóngshēng, lái shí xīnhuái nuǎn yáng. // … Read more