Life Experience

In this world, there are many things that you can only see when you reach a certain age

🌦️👀🧠 In this world, there are many things that you can only see when you reach a certain age and possess a certain wisdom. For example, those rainy days that aren’t really rainy, and that brightness that isn’t really sunshine. // 这世上有好多东西,一定要等到一定的年龄才能看得见,要拥有一定的智慧才能看得见。比如,那些本不是雨的雨天,那种不是阳光的光明。 Zhè shìshàng yǒu hǎoduō dōngxī, yīdìng yào děngdào yīdìng de niánlíng cáinéng kàn … Read more

Age’s Potential

Every year, we may think that this is the best age

🎂🌟🌱 Every year, we may think that this is the best age, but as you grow another year older, you realize that you can be even better. Age is just a number, not a barrier. // 每一年,我们或许都以为这是最好的年纪了,但当你又多长一岁,才知道自己原来可以更好。年龄只不过是一个数字,而不是阻碍。 Měi yī nián, wǒmen huòxǔ dū yǐwéi zhè shì zuì hǎo de niánjìle, dàn dāng nǐ yòu duō … Read more

Aging Gracefully

21 is great, 31 isn't bad either, and 41 might be even better

🎂🎉🌟 21 is great, 31 isn’t bad either, and 41 might be even better, as long as wrinkles don’t take root in our hearts, we’ll forever be in the prime of our lives. // 21岁很好,31岁也不差,41岁可能会更好,只要皱纹不长进心里,我们永远风华正茂。 21 suì hěn hǎo,31 suì yě bù chā,41 suì kěnéng huì gèng hǎo, zhǐyào zhòuwén bù cháng jìn xīnlǐ, wǒmen … Read more

Team First

EQ is often more important than IQ

🧠🤝🚀 EQ is often more important than IQ. In the workplace, solo heroes are not as welcome as team players who can collaborate effectively with others. // EQ比IQ重要,职场上并不欢迎单打独斗的英雄,而是能与人团队合作的人才。 EQ bǐ IQ zhòngyào, zhíchǎng shàng bìng bù huānyíng dāndǎ dú dòu de yīngxióng, ér shì néng yǔ rén tuánduì hézuò de réncái. // EQ bỉ IQ … Read more

Understanding Others

Emotional intelligence is definitely about making both yourself and others feel comfortable

🧠💡🤝 Emotional intelligence is definitely about making both yourself and others feel comfortable. If making others comfortable causes you great pain, that’s not emotional intelligence; that’s a lack of wisdom. // 情商一定是让别人和自己都舒服。如果让别人舒服自己却很痛苦,那不叫情商,叫智障。 Qíngshāng yīdìng shì ràng biérén hé zìjǐ dōu shūfú. Rúguǒ ràng biérén shūfú zìjǐ què hěn tòngkǔ, nà bù jiào qíngshāng, jiào zhìzhàng. … Read more

Emotional Intelligence

I read online that reading romance novels can increase emotional intelligence

📚💞🧠 I read online that reading romance novels can increase emotional intelligence. // 我从网上看的,说看言情小说,可以增长情商。 Wǒ cóng wǎngshàng kàn de, shuō kàn yánqíng xiǎoshuō, kěyǐ zēngzhǎng qíngshāng. // Ngã tòng võng thượng khán đích, thuyết khán ngôn tình tiểu thuyết, khả dĩ tăng trường tình thương. // Tôi đọc trên Internet, nói rằng đọc tiểu thuyết … Read more

Dark Humor

Living alone for too long means attending each of your friends' funerals one by one

😄😈🤣 Living alone for too long means attending each of your friends’ funerals one by one, which can be quite cruel. It’s better to make a few more enemies, so that in your later years, you’ll be greeted with one good news after another. // 一个人活太久晚年将会逐一参加每个朋友的葬礼,这未免也太残忍了,还不如多结点仇家,这样晚年时将会迎接一个又一个的喜讯。 Yīgè rén huó tài jiǔ wǎnnián jiāng huì zhúyī … Read more

Emotional Wellbeing

Don't expect one person to appear in your life and fulfill all your psychological needs

🤷‍♂️❤️🚶‍♂️ Don’t expect one person to appear in your life and fulfill all your psychological needs, making you never feel lonely again. It doesn’t work that way. // 不要期待一个人会出现在你的生命中,满足你所有的心理需求,从此你就不再寂寞了。没有这回事。 Bùyào qídài yīgè rén huì chūxiàn zài nǐ de shēngmìng zhòng, mǎnzú nǐ suǒyǒu de xīnlǐ xūqiú, cóngcǐ nǐ jiù bù zài jìmòle. Méiyǒu zhè huí … Read more

Time Well Spent

In the passage of time, quietly grasp that season as gentle as raindrops

🍵📜🌧️ In the passage of time, quietly grasp that season as gentle as raindrops: savor a cup of delicate tea, quietly read an ancient book, and become intoxicated in solitude. // 岁月里,静握那一丝如雨的季节:清品一杯淡淡的香茗,静读一本悠远的古卷,而独醉其中。 Suìyuè lǐ, jìng wò nà yīsī rú yǔ de jìjié: qīng pǐn yībēi dàndàn de xiāng míng, jìng dú yī běn yōuyuǎn de … Read more