Accepting Outcomes

Actually, there is nothing to regret

⏪🤔➡️ Actually, there is nothing to regret. Even if many things can be done over again in time, with the mind and experience at that time, we will still make the same choices and cannot avoid the same results. // 其实没什么好后悔的。很多事就算时间能重来一遍,以当时的心智和阅历,还是会做同样的选择,避免不了同样的结果。 Qíshí méishénme hǎo hòuhuǐ de. Hěnduō shì jiùsuàn shíjiān néng chóng lái yībiàn, yǐ … Read more

Finding Home

Now I know that my safe haven is no longer my home

🏠👣👩‍👧 Now I know that my safe haven is no longer my home, nor my parents, but a person who is used to being lonely and free. Girls grow up without a home. // 现在我知道了,我的避风港再也不是家,也不是父母,而是一个人习惯了孤独自由,女孩子长大了是没家的。 Xiànzài wǒ zhīdàole, wǒ de bìfēnggǎng zài yě bùshì jiā, yě bùshì fùmǔ, ér shì yīgè rén xíguànle gūdú zìyóu, … Read more

Inner Cultivation

Self-cultivation is not for others to see and feel, but a gift for yourself

🌳🏠🔥 Self-cultivation is not for others to see and feel, but a gift for yourself. It’s like repairing a simple and lonely cabin. When it’s cold, you have to make your own fire. When it’s hot, you have to open the window to enjoy the cool air, have fresh food, and throw garbage out of … Read more

Balanced Boundaries

People, like two kingdoms, should each maintain a broad, natural and moderate territory

🏞️🤝🗺️ People, like two kingdoms, should each maintain a broad, natural and moderate territory. Even between borders, there should be a neutral zone. — Chen Guo, “Good Loneliness” // 人与人,就像两个王国,各自应当保持着宽阔、自然而适度的疆域。甚至在疆界之间,要有一个中立地带。——陈果《好的孤独》 ​​​​ Rén yǔ rén, jiù xiàng liǎng gè wángguó, gèzì yīngdāng bǎochízhe kuānkuò, zìrán ér shìdù de jiāngyù. Shènzhì zài jiāngjiè zhī jiān, yào yǒu … Read more

Emotional Journey

I like a sentence: I passed away last night, and my heart felt like water when I left

💔💧🌅 I like a sentence: I passed away last night, and my heart felt like water when I left. I was born again this morning, with a warm heart when I came. // 喜欢一句话:我于昨晚去世,走时心如止水。我于今早重生,来时心怀暖阳。 Xǐhuān yījù huà: Wǒ yú zuó wǎn qùshì, zǒushí xīnrúzhǐshuǐ. Wǒ yú jīn zǎo chóngshēng, lái shí xīnhuái nuǎn yáng. // … Read more

Time Heals

Things in the world are often like this

⏳😔📆 Things in the world are often like this. At that time, the pain was unbearable, but a few years later, it was just a memory. ​​​​ // 人间的事往往如此,当时提起痛不欲生,几年之后,也不过是一场回忆而已。 ​​​​ Rénjiān de shì wǎngwǎng rúcǐ, dāngshí tíqǐ tòngbùyùshēng, jǐ nián zhīhòu, yě bùguò shì yī chǎng huíyì éryǐ. ​​​​ // Nhân gian đích sự vãng … Read more

Gratitude And Farewell

Life is a train to the grave

🚂🛤️👋 Life is a train to the grave. There will be many stops on the way, and it’s hard for someone to accompany you from beginning to end. When the person who accompanies you wants to get off, you should be grateful even if you don’t give up, and then wave goodbye. // 人生就是一列开往坟墓的列车,路途上会有很多站,很难有人可以自始至终陪着走完,当陪你的人要下车时,即不舍也该心存感激,然后挥手道别。 Rénshēng … Read more

Calm Reaction

When a person is overjoyed and sorrowful, he must learn to be calm

😌🧘‍♂️⚖️ When a person is overjoyed and sorrowful, he must learn to be calm, otherwise he will easily regret everything done in an excited mood later. // 一个人大喜大悲时,要学会淡定,否则,激动心情下所做的一切,事后很容易让自己后悔。 Yīgè rén dàxǐ dàbēi shí, yào xuéhuì dàndìng, fǒuzé, jīdòng xīnqíng xià suǒ zuò de yīqiè, shìhòu hěn róngyì ràng zìjǐ hòuhuǐ. // Nhất cá nhân đại … Read more

Contented Life

A contented life makes us feel calm, serene, enlightened, detached, not swayed by all kinds of ties in the world

😌🌿🙏 A contented life makes us feel calm, serene, enlightened, detached, not swayed by all kinds of ties in the world. It is a wise state of life; we are not critical, demanding, resentful, greedy, misunderstood or suspicious of life. // 知足的人生让我们感到平静、安详、达观、超脱,不为凡尘中的各种牵累所左右,是一种智慧的人生境界,对生活不挑剔,不苛求,不怨恨,不贪婪,不误解,不怀疑。 ​​​​ Zhīzú de rénshēng ràng wǒmen gǎndào píngjìng, ānxiáng, dáguān, chāotuō, bù wéi … Read more