“Stress” originates from inner conflict, which is an internal imbalance which negative emotions have the upper hand. It’s a joke to say that “There is power when there is pressure”. Internal power and pressure are not the same thing. Anything will deform under abnormal pressure. Besides, there is no greater power than inner peace. A … Read more
It is necessary to have enough life experience to help a person have the ability to think independently and truly have his own thoughts and concepts. Being young means that most of the things in your brain are other people’s ideas and most of them are other people’s thoughts. Therefore, most of the time, young … Read more
1. You must find something other than love that can make you stand strong on the ground with your feet. You have to find a way to earn a living. It’s not too late to think about it now. You must gradually transform those floating thoughts into clear ideas and simple words. Gorgeous and floating … Read more
When you are young, you need other people to help you know yourself. The so-called “injury” means that you can’t accept a part of yourself presented by others, and you mistake this part of “yourself” as “yourself brought by others”. You always think that everything is the fault of others, and consider your disapproval of … Read more
[Tiếng Việt ở phần dưới] When you get along with others, treat yourself as a nobody; and when you get along with yourself, treat yourself as a somebody. Those with too much “ego” actually value themselves in other people’ eyes. They will immediately fall into hell with a contemptuous look. They will always feel that … Read more
1. The habit of being outspoken when you are a little close must be changed. 2. Replace “Do you understand?” with “Have I made myself clear?” more often. 3. If someone sends you a message, you must reply it. Even if you don’t want to, you can tell him so. Even if you use expressions … Read more
I Asked Myself How To Handle Life (Weibo) I asked myself how to handle life? My room gave me all the answers. Roof said: Aim high. Fan said: Be cool. Clock said: Value time. Calendar said: Be up to date. Wallet said: Save now for the future. Mirror said: Always observe yourself. Lamp said: Illuminate … Read more