Finding Home
🏠👣👩👧 Now I know that my safe haven is no longer my home, nor my parents, but a person who is used to being lonely and free. Girls grow up without a home. // 现在我知道了，我的避风港再也不是家，也不是父母，而是一个人习惯了孤独自由，女孩子长大了是没家的。 Xiànzài wǒ zhīdàole, wǒ de bìfēnggǎng zài yě bùshì jiā, yě bùshì fùmǔ, ér shì yīgè rén xíguànle gūdú zìyóu, […]
Inner Cultivation
🌳🏠🔥 Self-cultivation is not for others to see and feel, but a gift for yourself. It’s like repairing a simple and lonely cabin. When it’s cold, you have to make your own fire. When it’s hot, you have to open the window to enjoy the cool air, have fresh food, and throw garbage out of […]
Balanced Boundaries
🏞️🤝🗺️ People, like two kingdoms, should each maintain a broad, natural and moderate territory. Even between borders, there should be a neutral zone. — Chen Guo, “Good Loneliness” // 人与人，就像两个王国，各自应当保持着宽阔、自然而适度的疆域。甚至在疆界之间，要有一个中立地带。——陈果《好的孤独》 Rén yǔ rén, jiù xiàng liǎng gè wángguó, gèzì yīngdāng bǎochízhe kuānkuò, zìrán ér shìdù de jiāngyù. Shènzhì zài jiāngjiè zhī jiān, yào yǒu […]
Emotional Journey
💔💧🌅 I like a sentence: I passed away last night, and my heart felt like water when I left. I was born again this morning, with a warm heart when I came. // 喜欢一句话：我于昨晚去世，走时心如止水。我于今早重生，来时心怀暖阳。 Xǐhuān yījù huà: Wǒ yú zuó wǎn qùshì, zǒushí xīnrúzhǐshuǐ. Wǒ yú jīn zǎo chóngshēng, lái shí xīnhuái nuǎn yáng. // […]
Time Heals
⏳😔📆 Things in the world are often like this. At that time, the pain was unbearable, but a few years later, it was just a memory. // 人间的事往往如此，当时提起痛不欲生，几年之后，也不过是一场回忆而已。 Rénjiān de shì wǎngwǎng rúcǐ, dāngshí tíqǐ tòngbùyùshēng, jǐ nián zhīhòu, yě bùguò shì yī chǎng huíyì éryǐ. // Nhân gian đích sự vãng […]
Gratitude And Farewell
🚂🛤️👋 Life is a train to the grave. There will be many stops on the way, and it’s hard for someone to accompany you from beginning to end. When the person who accompanies you wants to get off, you should be grateful even if you don’t give up, and then wave goodbye. // 人生就是一列开往坟墓的列车，路途上会有很多站，很难有人可以自始至终陪着走完，当陪你的人要下车时，即不舍也该心存感激，然后挥手道别。 Rénshēng […]
Calm Reaction
😌🧘♂️⚖️ When a person is overjoyed and sorrowful, he must learn to be calm, otherwise he will easily regret everything done in an excited mood later. // 一个人大喜大悲时，要学会淡定，否则，激动心情下所做的一切，事后很容易让自己后悔。 Yīgè rén dàxǐ dàbēi shí, yào xuéhuì dàndìng, fǒuzé, jīdòng xīnqíng xià suǒ zuò de yīqiè, shìhòu hěn róngyì ràng zìjǐ hòuhuǐ. // Nhất cá nhân đại […]
Contented Life
😌🌿🙏 A contented life makes us feel calm, serene, enlightened, detached, not swayed by all kinds of ties in the world. It is a wise state of life; we are not critical, demanding, resentful, greedy, misunderstood or suspicious of life. // 知足的人生让我们感到平静、安详、达观、超脱，不为凡尘中的各种牵累所左右，是一种智慧的人生境界，对生活不挑剔，不苛求，不怨恨，不贪婪，不误解，不怀疑。 Zhīzú de rénshēng ràng wǒmen gǎndào píngjìng, ānxiáng, dáguān, chāotuō, bù wéi […]
Empty Heart Space
😌🌌🧘♂️ The so-called calmness is to reserve a certain degree of emptiness in the heart, no matter what kind of surprise or bitterness can not be filled. // 所谓淡定，就是在内心预留一定程度的空旷感，无论遇见怎样的惊喜或是苦涩都无法将其填满。 Suǒwèi dàndìng, jiùshì zài nèixīn yù liú yīdìng chéngdù de kōngkuàng gǎn, wúlùn yùjiàn zěnyàng de jīngxǐ huò shì kǔsè dōu wúfǎ jiāng qí tián mǎn. […]