No Obligation

You're neither obligated nor capable of changing others

💔🏃‍♂️🚪 You’re neither obligated nor capable of changing others. After all, fleeing from someone is always much easier than trying to change them. // 你没有义务和责任去改变别人,而且你也没那个能力。毕竟逃离一个人,永远比改变一个人要容易得多。 Nǐ méiyǒu yìwù hé zérèn qù gǎibiàn biérén, érqiě nǐ yě méi nàgè nénglì. Bìjìng táolí yīgè rén, yǒngyuǎn bǐ gǎibiàn yīgè rén yào róngyì dé duō. ​ // Nhĩ … Read more

Don’t Chase

Don't chase what you can't catch

🏃‍♂️🛑👋 Don’t chase what you can’t catch! Let go of what you can’t carry! Delete what you can’t stand! Let go freely if it’s gradually drifting away! Don’t hold onto what doesn’t belong to you! Do what you want to do, listen to the voices you want to hear, see the people you want to … Read more

Fearless Detachment

Once a person is no longer afraid of losing, their attitude becomes very casual

🚶‍♀️🎈💭 Once a person is no longer afraid of losing, their attitude becomes very casual. // 人一旦不再害怕失去,态度就会变得很随意。 Rén yīdàn bù zài hàipà shīqù, tàidù jiù huì biàn dé hěn suíyì. // Nhân nhất đán bất tái hại phạ thất khứ, thái độ tựu hội biến đắc ngận tùy ý. // Một khi con người không … Read more

Modest Living

Don't look down on those living modestly, as within the simplicity lies great happiness

🤗🏡😇 Don’t look down on those living modestly, as within the simplicity lies great happiness. // 别瞧不起过小日子的人,小日子里可是藏着大幸福。 Bié qiáobùqǐguò xiǎo rìzi de rén, xiǎo rìzi lǐ kěshì cángzhe dà xìngfú. // Biệt tiều bất khởi quá tiểu nhật tử đích nhân, tiểu nhật tử lý khả thị tàng trứ đại hạnh phúc. // Đừng coi … Read more

Stay Positive

The path of life is sometimes narrow and sometimes wide

🛤️🌟😌 The path of life is sometimes narrow and sometimes wide. When it’s narrow, it leaves one with no way forward; when it’s wide, it leaves one uncertain of which direction to take. All you can do is be patient, follow your own choices, and move forward step by step. Who knows what lies ahead? … Read more

Weather Woes

The weather is really troublesome, summer evaporates my soul, and winter freezes it

☀️❄️🌬️ The weather is really troublesome, summer evaporates my soul, and winter freezes it. // 天气真的很麻烦,夏天把我的灵魂蒸发了,冬天又把我的灵魂冻结了。 Tiānqì zhēn de hěn máfan, xiàtiān bǎ wǒ de línghún zhēngfāle, dōngtiān yòu bǎ wǒ de línghún dòngjiéle. // Thiên khí chân đích ngận ma phiền, hạ thiên bả ngã đích linh hồn chưng phát liễu, đông thiên hựu … Read more

Keep It To Yourself

Just accept the good and the bad, keep it all to yourself

🤐🔄🌍 Just accept the good and the bad, keep it all to yourself. Don’t share everything with others, there’s really no one who truly empathizes. Only you know your own joys and sorrows. // 好的坏的就照单全收吧,不要任何事情都跟别人讲,这世上真的没有感同身受,只能冷暖自知。 Hǎo de huài de jiù zhào dān quán shōu ba, bùyào rènhé shìqíng dōu gēn biérén jiǎng, zhè shìshàng zhēn … Read more

The 70/30 Rule

In communication between two people, 70% is emotion and 30% is content

💬😔😤 In communication between two people, 70% is emotion and 30% is content. If emotions are off, the content gets distorted. Therefore, without good emotions, no matter how much is said, it’s just venting. // 两个人的沟通,70%是情绪,30%是内容。情绪不对,内容就会被扭曲,因此,没有良好的情绪,说的再多也只是发泄。 Liǎng gèrén de gōutōng, 70%shì qíngxù, 30%shì nèiróng. Qíngxù bùduì, nèiróng jiù huì bèi niǔqū, yīncǐ, méiyǒu liánghǎo de … Read more

Indifferent World

The sooner you understand the better: 99% of what happens to you daily is meaningless to others

🌍💭🤔 The sooner you understand the better: 99% of what happens to you daily is meaningless to others. There is no empathy in the world. // 越早明白越好的道理:每天发生在自己身上的99%的事情对于别人而言根本毫无意义。世界上没有感同身受。 Yuè zǎo míngbái yuè hǎo de dàolǐ: Měitiān fāshēng zài zìjǐ shēnshang de 99%de shìqíng duìyú biérén ér yán gēnběn háo wú yìyì. Shìjiè shàng méiyǒu gǎntóngshēnshòu. // … Read more