Self Acceptance

No matter your age, remember that those who speak slowly are valued

🧘‍♂️🌿✨ No matter your age, remember that those who speak slowly are valued, those who are gentle are wealthy, and those with great virtue are prosperous. Allow yourself to be yourself, allow others to be others, live in the present moment, don’t think about those on shore when you’re on board, don’t talk about those … Read more

Self Compassion

Anything you suddenly give up on has likely accumulated too much powerlessness and disappointment over a long time

🌟🕊️💫 Anything you suddenly give up on has likely accumulated too much powerlessness and disappointment over a long time. You realize that holding on makes you unhappy, so you finally decide to let yourself go. // 任何你突然放弃的事物,一定是积累了太多太久的无力和失望,你发现自己坚持得好不快乐,于是你终于放过了自己。 ​​​ Rènhé nǐ túrán fàngqì de shìwù, yīdìng shì jīlěile tài duō tài jiǔ de wúlì hé shīwàng, … Read more

Not Easy

Being too rational leads to conflicts with others

⚖️🧠❤️ Being too rational leads to conflicts with others; being too emotional means being controlled by your feelings; being too stubborn ultimately leads to a dead end. In short, this world is not an easy place to navigate. // 太讲究理智,容易与人产生摩擦;太顺从情感,则会被情感左右;太坚持己见,终将穷途末路。总而言之,这世间并不宜人。 Tài jiǎngjiù lǐzhì, róngyì yǔ rén chǎnshēng mócā; tài shùncóng qínggǎn, zé huì bèi qínggǎn … Read more

Anger Management

If you receive a message that angers you, don't reply immediately

🕰️🤔🔇 If you receive a message that angers you, don’t reply immediately. Wait until tomorrow to respond, because a day later you’ll find yourself answering it wisely, or you’ll see that it’s insignificant and not worth a reply. // 如果你收到一条让你生气的消息,不要直接回复,迟到明天才回复,因为一天后你会发现自己在明智地回答它,或者你会看到它微不足道,不值得回复。 Rúguǒ nǐ shōu dào yītiáo ràng nǐ shēngqì de xiāoxī, bùyào zhíjiē huífù, chídào míngtiān … Read more

Emotional Awareness

When you're angry and intentionally ignore the other party

🤔💔🗣️ When you’re angry and intentionally ignore the other party, only to realize much later that they haven’t even noticed or didn’t care, you discover that all your silent treatment was pointless. Then, when someone shows you a little kindness, you instantly forgive them, even feeling like you were wrong. Sadness is just a play … Read more

Perfect Balance

At a young age, I've already managed to balance career and love—by having neither

🌱🌀💔 At a young age, I’ve already managed to balance career and love… by having neither. // 年纪轻轻的我就已经把事业和爱情取得了平衡,都没有。 Niánjì qīng qīng de wǒ jiù yǐjīng bǎ shìyè hé àiqíng qǔdéle pínghéng, dōu méiyǒu. // Niên kỷ khinh khinh đích ngã tựu dĩ kinh bả sự nghiệp hòa ái tình thủ đắc liễu bình hành, đô … Read more

Love Freely

Loving one person is too tiring. Why not be bold and love five, six, or seven?

💖🎉🤗 Loving one person is too tiring. Why not be bold and love five, six, or seven? // 爱一个人太累了,不妨大胆点,爱地五六七个。 Ài yīgè rén tài lèile, bùfáng dàdǎn diǎn, ài de wǔliùqī gè. // Ái nhất cá nhân thái luy liễu, bất phương đại đảm điểm, ái địa ngũ lục thất cá. // Yêu một người mệt … Read more

Love vs Hate

It's so interesting, you can tell a man 'I hate you' and you'll have the best sex of your life

🌹💔🔥 It’s so interesting, you can tell a man ‘I hate you’ and you’ll have the best sex of your life. But tell him ‘I love you,’ and you’ll probably never see him again. // 太有意思了,你可以对一个男人说“我恨你”,然后得到最好的性爱;但告诉他“我爱你”,却有可能再也见不到他。 Tài yǒuyìsile, nǐ kěyǐ duì yīgè nánrén shuō “wǒ hèn nǐ”, ránhòu dédào zuì hǎo dì xìng’ài; dàn gàosù … Read more

Acceptance Is Key

If you want to let go as soon as possible, the core approach is to completely accept the ending

🔚💔🌱 If you want to let go as soon as possible, the core approach is to completely accept the ending. Don’t be unwilling because the ending doesn’t match the process. Admit it generously the fact that you are no longer loved. // 如果想要尽快释怀的话 最核心的办法是完全接受结局。不要因为结局配不上过程而不甘心。大方地去承认 自己已经不被爱的事实。 Rúguǒ xiǎng yào jǐnkuài shìhuái dehuà zuì héxīn de bànfǎ … Read more