Communication Skills

The four major principles of interpersonal communication

📢🤝💬 The four major principles of interpersonal communication: First, say what the other person wants to hear. Then, say what they can take in. Next, say what you need to say. Finally, say what you want to say. // 人际沟通的四大法则:先讲对方想听的、再讲对方听得进的、再讲你该讲的、最后讲你想讲的。 Rénjì gōutōng de sì dà fǎzé: Xiān jiǎng duìfāng xiǎng tīng de, zài jiǎng duìfāng … Read more

Stay Grounded

Four rules for staying clear-headed in life

🌟💡✨ Four rules for staying clear-headed in life: don’t be manipulated, don’t believe in promises, don’t fall for big dreams, don’t listen to stories. // 人间清醒的四大法则:不被拿捏、不信承诺、不吃大饼、不听故事。 Rénjiān qīngxǐng de sì dà fǎzé: bù bèi nǎniē, bùxìn chéngnuò, bù chī dà bǐng, bù tīng gùshì. // Nhân gian thanh tỉnh đích tứ đại pháp tắc: bất … Read more

Weight Loss

I've lost weight recently, not by dieting, but by secretly letting go of the 999 men in my heart

🏃💓🤸 I’ve lost weight recently, not by dieting, but by secretly letting go of the 999 men in my heart. // 最近体重下降了,没有減肥,只是偷偷把心里的,九百九十九个男人放下了而已。 Zuìjìn tǐzhòng xiàjiàngle, méiyǒu jiǎnféi, zhǐshì tōutōu bǎ xīnlǐ de, jiǔbǎi jiǔshíjiǔ gè nánrén fàngxiàle éryǐ. // Tối cận thể trọng hạ hàng liễu, một hữu giảm phì, chích thị thâu thâu bả … Read more

No Tears

Shed no tears for love; lose sleep only for money

🚩💰🤔 Shed no tears for love; lose sleep only for money. // 不为感情流一滴泪,只为钱财夜不能寐。 Bù wéi gǎnqíng liú yīdī lèi, zhǐ wèi qiáncái yè bùnéng mèi. // Bất vi cảm tình lưu nhất tích lệ, chích vi tiền tài dạ bất năng mị. // Không rơi nước mắt vì tình yêu, chỉ mất ngủ vì tiền.

Considerate Girl

Be a considerate girl. When your boyfriend is busy, go out and have fun with other guys

🤔💔🚩 Be a considerate girl. When your boyfriend is busy, go out and have fun with other guys. // 做个懂事的女孩子,当你男朋友忙的时候就去找别的小哥哥玩。 Zuò gè dǒngshì de nǚ háizi, dāng nǐ nán péngyǒu máng de shíhòu jiù qù zhǎo bié de xiǎo gēgē wán. // Tố cá đổng sự đích nữ hài tử, đương nhĩ nam bằng hữu … Read more

Serene And Untroubled

Seeing mountains still as mountains and waters still as waters

🌄💧🧘‍♂️ Seeing mountains still as mountains and waters still as waters. With wisdom and enlightenment from life’s experiences, one remains serene and untroubled amidst the chaos. // 看山还是山 看水还是水。阅历人生而后开悟、生慧,便可任他红尘滚滚,我自清风明月。 ​​​ Kàn shān háishì shān kàn shuǐ háishì shuǐ. Yuèlì rénshēng érhòu kāi wù, shēng huì, biàn kě rèn tā hóngchén gǔngǔn, wǒ zì qīngfēng míngyuè. … Read more

Lost In Chaos

Seeing mountains not as mountains and waters not as waters

🤯🌊🤔 Seeing mountains not as mountains and waters not as waters. As one gains experience, the world appears chaotic, with black and white reversed and right and wrong confused. Mountains evoke sighs, and waters elicit laments. // 看山不是山 看水不是水。涉世渐深,发现这个世界一片混沌,黑白颠倒,是非混淆,看山感慨,看水叹息。 Kàn shān bùshì shān kàn shuǐ bùshì shuǐ. Shèshì jiàn shēn, fāxiàn zhège shìjiè yīpiàn hùndùn, … Read more

First Impressions

Seeing mountains as mountains and water as water

🏞️👀🌊 Seeing mountains as mountains and water as water. When one first encounters the world, their heart is pure and their eyes see things as they are. // 看山是山 看水是水。一个人初识世界,内心纯洁,眼睛里看见什么就是什么。 Kàn shān shì shān kàn shuǐ shì shuǐ. Yīgè rén chū shì shìjiè, nèixīn chúnjié, yǎnjīng lǐ kànjiàn shénme jiùshì shénme. // Khán sơn thị … Read more

Invisible Rivers

And the invisible rivers keep flowing endlessly

🌊💭🌏 And the invisible rivers keep flowing endlessly, up and down through life, keeping people from getting close to each other, making this shore distant and indifferent to the other shore. – Nguyễn Ngọc Tư // 那些看不见的河流依然在不停地流淌,穿越人生的起伏,让人无法靠近人,让这一岸与那一岸疏远、陌生。 Nàxiē kàn bùjiàn de héliú yīrán zài bù tíng de liútǎng, chuānyuè rénshēng de qǐfú, ràng rén wúfǎ … Read more