Stability First
🔋🤝💖 My current state is that if I have energy and emotions to spare, I prefer to invest them in existing, stable relationships rather than risk establishing new ones only to have my sincerity wasted. // 现在的状态是，如果我有富余的精力和情感，更愿意放在已有的稳定的关系上，而不是冒着真心被浪费的风险去建立新的关系。 Xiànzài de zhuàngtài shì, rúguǒ wǒ yǒu fùyú de jīnglì hé qínggǎn, gèng yuànyì fàng zài yǐ […]
Mutual Respect
💖🔑✨ A successful relationship doesn’t necessarily hinge on a specific personality type. The key is whether the person appreciates who you are. If they like your personality, being assertive is fine; if not, being gentle won’t make a difference. // 好的恋爱和怎样的性格没有太大直接关系吧，关键还是要看对方是不是对的人，他喜欢你的性格，强势也没有错，不喜欢，你再温柔也没用。 Hǎo de liàn’ài hé zěnyàng dì xìnggé méiyǒu tài dà zhíjiē guānxì ba, guānjiàn […]
Aging Wisdom
💪❤️🍂 When you reach a certain age, it’s time to let go of four things: meaningless gatherings, people who don’t love you, relatives who look down on you, and fake friends. You must possess four things: confidence on your face, kindness deep in your heart, integrity in your veins, and resilience engraved in your life. […]
Like Minded Souls
🍻👭💖 Drink wine with like-minded souls; spend your days with those who understand you. 100-degree boiling water can cool down, let alone a 37-degree human heart. Have some self-awareness; avoid being overly sentimental. // 酒要和投缘的人喝，日子要和懂你的人过，一百度的开水都会凉，何况三十七度的人心，多一点自知之明，少一点自作多情。 Jiǔ yào hé tóuyuán de rén hē, rìzi yào hé dǒng nǐ de rénguò, yī bǎidù de kāishuǐ dūhuì liáng, […]
Cautionary Wisdom
🌳🌦️🌤️ Don’t rely on anyone; under a big tree, there is no big grass. Those who provide shelter from the storm may also cast a shadow that blocks the sunlight. // 不要依赖任何人，大树底下无大草，但凡能为你遮风避雨的，同样能让你不见天日。 Bùyào yīlài rènhé rén, dà shù dǐxia wú dàcǎo, dànfán néng wéi nǐ zhē fēng bì yǔ de, tóngyàng néng ràng nǐ bùjiàn […]