Communication Tips

Four communication habits to avoid in close relationships

🤐💔🚫 Four communication habits to avoid in close relationships: negative silence, direct contempt, clumsy sarcasm, baseless provocation. // 密切关系中最应该避免的4种交流习惯:消极的沉默、直接的蔑视、蹩脚的讥讽、无端的挑衅。 Mìqiè guānxì zhōng zuì yīnggāi bìmiǎn de 4 zhǒng jiāoliú xíguàn: xiāojí de chénmò, zhíjiē de mièshì, biéjiǎo de jīfèng, wúduān dì tiǎoxìn. // Mật thiết quan hệ trung tối ứng cai tị miễn đích 4 … Read more

Stability First

My current state is that if I have energy and emotions to spare

🔋🤝💖 My current state is that if I have energy and emotions to spare, I prefer to invest them in existing, stable relationships rather than risk establishing new ones only to have my sincerity wasted. // 现在的状态是,如果我有富余的精力和情感,更愿意放在已有的稳定的关系上,而不是冒着真心被浪费的风险去建立新的关系。 ​​​ Xiànzài de zhuàngtài shì, rúguǒ wǒ yǒu fùyú de jīnglì hé qínggǎn, gèng yuànyì fàng zài yǐ … Read more

Mutual Respect

A successful relationship doesn't necessarily hinge on a specific personality type

💖🔑✨ A successful relationship doesn’t necessarily hinge on a specific personality type. The key is whether the person appreciates who you are. If they like your personality, being assertive is fine; if not, being gentle won’t make a difference. // 好的恋爱和怎样的性格没有太大直接关系吧,关键还是要看对方是不是对的人,他喜欢你的性格,强势也没有错,不喜欢,你再温柔也没用。 Hǎo de liàn’ài hé zěnyàng dì xìnggé méiyǒu tài dà zhíjiē guānxì ba, guānjiàn … Read more

Aging Wisdom

When you reach a certain age, it's time to let go of four things

💪❤️🍂 When you reach a certain age, it’s time to let go of four things: meaningless gatherings, people who don’t love you, relatives who look down on you, and fake friends. You must possess four things: confidence on your face, kindness deep in your heart, integrity in your veins, and resilience engraved in your life. … Read more

Like Minded Souls

Drink wine with like-minded souls; spend your days with those who understand you

🍻👭💖 Drink wine with like-minded souls; spend your days with those who understand you. 100-degree boiling water can cool down, let alone a 37-degree human heart. Have some self-awareness; avoid being overly sentimental. // 酒要和投缘的人喝,日子要和懂你的人过,一百度的开水都会凉,何况三十七度的人心,多一点自知之明,少一点自作多情。 Jiǔ yào hé tóuyuán de rén hē, rìzi yào hé dǒng nǐ de rénguò, yī bǎidù de kāishuǐ dūhuì liáng, … Read more