Starting Anew

One day, you will let go of your current persistence and reluctance

💔🚶‍♂️🌄 One day, you will let go of your current persistence and reluctance, and start a new life without that person with a little regret. // 总会有那么一天,你会放下如今的执着和不舍,带着稍许的遗憾,去开始过没有那个人的新生活。 Zǒng huì yǒu nàme yītiān, nǐ huì fàngxià rújīn de zhízhuó hé bù shě, dàizhe shāoxǔ de yíhàn, qù kāishǐguò méiyǒu nàgè rén de xīn shēnghuó. // Sẽ … Read more

Accepting Outcomes

Actually, there is nothing to regret

⏪🤔➡️ Actually, there is nothing to regret. Even if many things can be done over again in time, with the mind and experience at that time, we will still make the same choices and cannot avoid the same results. // 其实没什么好后悔的。很多事就算时间能重来一遍,以当时的心智和阅历,还是会做同样的选择,避免不了同样的结果。 Qíshí méishénme hǎo hòuhuǐ de. Hěnduō shì jiùsuàn shíjiān néng chóng lái yībiàn, yǐ … Read more

Finding Home

Now I know that my safe haven is no longer my home

🏠👣👩‍👧 Now I know that my safe haven is no longer my home, nor my parents, but a person who is used to being lonely and free. Girls grow up without a home. // 现在我知道了,我的避风港再也不是家,也不是父母,而是一个人习惯了孤独自由,女孩子长大了是没家的。 Xiànzài wǒ zhīdàole, wǒ de bìfēnggǎng zài yě bùshì jiā, yě bùshì fùmǔ, ér shì yīgè rén xíguànle gūdú zìyóu, … Read more

Inner Cultivation

Self-cultivation is not for others to see and feel, but a gift for yourself

🌳🏠🔥 Self-cultivation is not for others to see and feel, but a gift for yourself. It’s like repairing a simple and lonely cabin. When it’s cold, you have to make your own fire. When it’s hot, you have to open the window to enjoy the cool air, have fresh food, and throw garbage out of … Read more

Balanced Boundaries

People, like two kingdoms, should each maintain a broad, natural and moderate territory

🏞️🤝🗺️ People, like two kingdoms, should each maintain a broad, natural and moderate territory. Even between borders, there should be a neutral zone. — Chen Guo, “Good Loneliness” // 人与人,就像两个王国,各自应当保持着宽阔、自然而适度的疆域。甚至在疆界之间,要有一个中立地带。——陈果《好的孤独》 ​​​​ Rén yǔ rén, jiù xiàng liǎng gè wángguó, gèzì yīngdāng bǎochízhe kuānkuò, zìrán ér shìdù de jiāngyù. Shènzhì zài jiāngjiè zhī jiān, yào yǒu … Read more