Elegance Matters

In middle age, without an elegant demeanor, one is bound to appear shallow

😌🌿🌟 In middle age, without an elegant demeanor, one is bound to appear shallow; without a composed demeanor, one is bound to appear desperate. // 人到中年,若是身上没有优雅的样子,就免不了有肤浅的样子;没有从容的样子,就免不了有绝望的样子。 Rén dào zhōng nián, ruòshì shēnshang méiyǒu yōuyǎ de yàngzi, jiù miǎnbule yǒu fūqiǎn de yàngzi; méiyǒu cóngróng de yàngzi, jiù miǎnbule yǒu juéwàng de yàngzi. // Nhân đáo … Read more

Literary Reflections

In middle age, you can drink Li Bai's wine, but must lighten Du Fu's sorrows

🍷🌔📜 In middle age, you can drink Li Bai’s wine, but must lighten Du Fu’s sorrows; enjoy Su Dongpo’s bright moon, but don’t touch Wang Wei’s love red beans. // 人到中年,可饮李白的酒,但要看开杜甫的愁;可赏苏东坡的明月,但别碰王维的相思红豆。 Rén dào zhōng nián, kěyǐn lǐbái de jiǔ, dàn yào kàn kāi dùfǔ de chóu; kě yǐ shǎng sūdōngpō de míngyuè, dàn bié pèng … Read more

Qian Zhongshu

Those inside the city walls want to escape, while those outside want to break in

🏰🔄🌆 Those inside the city walls want to escape, while those outside want to break in; be it marriage or career, such is the desire of life. — Qian Zhongshu “Fortress Besieged”​​​​ // 围在城里的人想逃出来,站在城外的人想冲进去,婚姻也罢、事业也罢,人生的欲望大都如此。——钱钟书《围城》 ​​​ Wéi zài chéng lǐ de rén xiǎng táo chūlái, zhàn zài chéng wài de rén xiǎng chōng jìnqù, hūnyīn yěbà, … Read more

Mo Yan

The secret to maintaining good relationships with those around you is not to share happiness

☝️🤐🤝 The secret to maintaining good relationships with those around you is not to share happiness, not to show off success, not to gossip, and not to pretend to be smart. — Mo Yan // 和周围人搞好关系的秘诀就是,不分享喜悦,不炫耀成功,不说三道四,不假装聪明。​​​——莫言 Hé zhōuwéi rén gǎo hǎo guānxì de mìjué jiùshì, bù fēnxiǎng xǐyuè, bù xuànyào chénggōng, bù shuō sān dào … Read more

Charlie Munger

In my whole life, I have known no wise people who didn't read all the time

📚🧠📖 In my whole life, I have known no wise people who didn’t read all the time — none, zero. ― Charlie Munger (1924 – 2023) // 我这辈子遇到的聪明人,没有不每天阅读的,没有,一个都没有。——查理·芒格 (1924 – 2023) Wǒ zhè bèizi yù dào de cōngmíng rén, méiyǒu bù měitiān yuèdú de, méiyǒu, yīgè dōu méiyǒu. ——Chálǐ·Máng gé // Ngã giá bối tử … Read more