Advice For Girls In Love (Weibo)

Don’t be too passive in love.
If you don’t respond that you like him, no one can hold on for too long.
One’s efforts cannot become the relationship between two people.

Don’t believe this sentence,
“If you love me, you should know what I think.”
No one will know exactly what the other person thinks.
Because the other party didn’t know your thoughts in time,
Thinking that he doesn’t love you is irrational.

Love a person moderately.
Don’t treat your boyfriend to no bottom line,
Or he’ll treat you like a mother,
Don’t blame him for finding you another daughter-in-law.
Always remember that a person who eats too much will not be grateful,
Instead, he will be anorexic.

People who say they love you don’t necessarily love you.
Compared with sweet love words,
His being busy in the kitchen when you are sleepy,
His big hand coming to take you home after work.
His phone calls several times a day to give you a sense of security,
Are the most touching.

Remember to speak out when you have grievances in your heart.
Don’t force yourself to be sensible.
Your suffer patiently for a long time, but
He just takes you for granted.
Timely communication in love shows that the bottom line is very important.

The days ahead are very long.
If you want to get married, please marry
Someone who makes you laugh more than you cry.

These Are More Like Fate Than Fate Itself (Weibo)

Most of your life, you don’t know what you’re doing or how you should do. It’s like some kind of mental disability passed down from generation to generation.

You can’t have a complete understanding of how to spend youth when you have youth. It is impossible to have both middle age and complete knowledge of middle age. It is impossible to have both love and complete cognition of love. It is impossible to embrace death and have a complete understanding of it at the same time.

These are more like fate than fate itself.

20 Cruel Truths About Love (Weibo)

About Love

1. Don’t accept someone because you are soft-hearted. When the throbbing caused by emotion fades, you will regret for a long time that you have promised to be together too hastily.

2. When you and your partner don’t understand each other because of the different pace of life, please create a common ground for each other in time. Feelings without a common life circle are like a bacterium leaving a petri dish, which will die out automatically after being exposed to the air for too long.

3. If you feel that you can’t go on with him, don’t break up in a hurry, try to reconcile first. Maybe your long-standing conflict is just a misunderstanding.

4. Everyone is a partner for the first time, so give him more time and patience to learn how to love correctly.

5. Sometimes, love requires some pretense. For example, when he bought a lipstick of the wrong color, or he cooked for the first time and made a dish that he couldn’t swallow. Love needs encouragement to nourish it.

6. Give each other some personal space. Love is like cooking. If the temperature is too strong, you will burn the pan; if the temperature is too low, the food won’t be cooked. You have to adjust the heat properly.

7. When you think he doesn’t like you, he really doesn’t like you (too much).

8. Stop loss in time. If you find yourself often uncomfortable or wronged in this relationship, please leave. Don’t be embarrassed, or try to shape his personality again. How can he be reborn in a few months with his stereotype that he has built over 20 years?

9. Don’t worry about establishing a relationship with a person. Spend more time to see if he is suitable for you, which can effectively avoid mutual torture after falling in love. People who really like you can wait for a few months.

About Lovers

10. Just because a person doesn’t care about you in the way you want doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you.

11. It’s really important to be suitable. What matters is not only the equivalence of financial capabilities, but also the combination of family education and personal ambition. Two people with unequal spiritual worlds and psychological gap will make each other unlovable.

12. Apart from being nice to you (good for no money), please carefully consider getting married with a boy who is useless. A boy who has accomplished nothing has a lot of time which is his cheapest thing. To judge whether he treats you well is to see if he is willing to share his most precious things with you.

13. Asking him to prove his love for you by “making love” will only gradually push him away.

14. He who likes to hit you through words often loves himself most. People who really like you will never let you get hurt.

15. Don’t fall in love with someone who has been in love for more than two years. Two years is like at a crossroads of love. You choose to get married or break up. There must be something more unbearable for a girl to break up regardless of the sunk cost.

About Yourself

16. Don’t fall in love for the sake of love. Everyone in the world has their own development time zone. Some people seem to be walking in front of you, while others seem to be walking behind you. But in fact, everyone has their own steps in their own time zone, so there is no need to envy or laugh at them. They are all in their own time zone, and so are you. Life is waiting for the right time to act. So, take it easy. You are not behind, and you are not ahead. Everything is on time in your own time zone arranged by fate.

17. It is necessary to maintain an independent self at all times. The significance of love lies in people’s self-growth and emotional perfection, rather than just being attached to the big tree. When you lose your self-worth, you start to become dispensable.

18. Leaving is the normal state of life. It is painful to break up, but don’t be afraid of pain. The earth can spin around without anyone, and so can your world. Don’t think you can’t find anyone better than him. In fact, the next one is always better than the previous. All existence follows the law of conservation of matter. If someone owes you something, there will always be another person to pay you back.

19. Don’t marry someone because of money, and don’t marry someone because of love. You will have an ideal love when you lead a lively life alone, you two will have a better life experience together.

20. You know, you are the only best girl in the world. Don’t rush to open your heart to others just because they are a little nicer to you. In fact, you are really good, and you don’t need to be loved by making a compromise.

Some Little Blessings In A Winter Day (Weibo)

1. Wearing a cotton jacket and eating hot baked sweet potatoes grilled by street grandfathers.

2. Tying the long trousers into the socks, tying the autumn clothes in the long trousers, and holding you in the palm of my hand.

3. Staying in bed as long as I like, and playing with my mobile phone in bed.

4. Sitting around with friends, eating hot pot, and gossiping.

5. Resting and soaking my feet after a busy day.

6. Wandering around the streets in the afternoon, and holding the warmth of hot milk tea in my hand.

7. Opening the curtains to let the sun shine in.

8. Putting my cold hands in my partner’s coat pocket.

9. Getting up early, and eating the sausage egg cake made by an aunt at the entrance of the block.

10. There is a warm bathroom heater to let me take a satisfying hot bath.

11. In the cool air, there’s a bright warm sun hanging in the sky.

12. Reading a favorite book quietly in the heated study room.

13. Family and friends far away from home call and say that they will go home for New Year get-togethers.

14. Stinky tofu with steaming soup on the street in winter night.

15. Looking up, and suddenly seeing snow from the sky.

16. A cup of hot milk tea to warm my hands.

17. Grabbing the ticket to go home on the Spring Festival travel rush.

18. Sleeping in bed for ten more minutes.

19. Chatting with old friends in the sun.

20. Eating dumplings made by my mother.

21. Receiving a hand-woven scarf from someone who likes me for a long time.

22. A warm bear hug when meeting someone I like.

23. When sorting out the wardrobe, I find that there is money in the big cotton jacket I wore last year.

24. Taking a winter trip with my family and my partner.

25. The distance by car not too far.

26. Snow not blocking the road.

27. After a work’s day, I go home with warmness and full meal waiting for me.

28. The person who spent the winter with you last year is still around.

29. When winter comes, can spring be far behind?

A Wise Person Is The One Who Asks For Nothing And Everything In Peace (Weibo)

“Stress” originates from inner conflict, which is an internal imbalance which negative emotions have the upper hand. It’s a joke to say that “There is power when there is pressure”. Internal power and pressure are not the same thing. Anything will deform under abnormal pressure. Besides, there is no greater power than inner peace. A wise person is the one who asks for nothing and everything in peace.

This Is What People Often Call Introspection (Weibo)

It is necessary to have enough life experience to help a person have the ability to think independently and truly have his own thoughts and concepts.

Being young means that most of the things in your brain are other people’s ideas and most of them are other people’s thoughts. Therefore, most of the time, young people just either suffer from other people’s ideas or take delight in other people’s thoughts.

The stupidest thing in a person’s life is that they never compare their own ideas with their own experiences. They don’t know how far their thoughts and ideas are from their true self.

This is what people often call introspection.

15 Tips To Help You Become Gentle And Tough (Weibo)

1. You must find something other than love that can make you stand strong on the ground with your feet. You have to find a way to earn a living. It’s not too late to think about it now. You must gradually transform those floating thoughts into clear ideas and simple words. Gorgeous and floating words don’t last long. You should know that what gives you enough pleasure in reading words is content, thought, realm, soul, spirit and wisdom.

2. Don’t be trivial and moaning. Don’t be so sentimental and touched. You should believe in the old-fashioned words of warmth, beauty, trust, dignity and strength. Don’t be decadent, empty, confused, abuse yourself, or hurt others. Don’t make a mess of yourself.

3. Control your feelings; you can’t want anybody. Don’t say “love” easily. When a man no longer comes to you, don’t go to him again. Don’t trust people who use tricks in love. Don’t say bad words when you break up. Learn the lesson, but don’t regret it. It is no use regretting.

4. Never agree with those who pretend to be cool and different. They are people who have nothing to do and find excuses to let themselves have nothing to do. The real coolness lies in your heart. You should have a strong heart. We must have the belief that you will not be tortured and succumbed even if time passes. I don’t say that I love the world because I’m in the ivory tower, but after I know that it’s dark, dirty and ugly outside, I will still say it.

5. Love and live. Youth is so short, don’t sigh like the elderly. You can stop to have a rest once in a while, but don’t squat down and look around. Remember not to look back when you walk a path.

6. Ask yourself from time to time what you are doing. Give yourself a great future and goal. Remember to always look up at the sky; and remember to look at your feet when you look up at the sky.

7. When you are sad and wronged, you should cry, wash your face after crying, pat your face, and squeeze out a smile for yourself. Don’t rub, or your eyes will swell the next morning.

8. Good love will always come next time. Don’t give the same man a chance to hurt you twice. Don’t believe the vows in bed. Don’t value virginity, but keep your purity. Don’t be ashamed of your desires, enjoy them well, but never tolerate men’s insults and neglect.

9. Believe in love, believe that good men still exist, are unmarried, and are still looking for you in a sea of people. Don’t say “men don’t have a good thing”, which makes others mistake you are very experienced in men.

10. Love material properly, and always know that spirit is more important. What’s more beautiful than those famous watches, famous brands and fashion is yourself.

11. Don’t underestimate a penny, you might as well earn it yourself.

12. When you are hurt by a friend, don’t doubt the friendship, but beware of those who betray you. Forgive, but not forget. Keep some naiveté like a child, and be chivalrous to your friends.

13. Be happy, cheerful, tough and warm has nothing to do with your personality.

14. Don’t be too low-key, sometimes be tough. When you are bullied, you must get it back! But don’t hold grudges. Little people’s opinions, let them go. Compassion makes a person noble.

15. Forgive the world and yourself. Tell yourself that you deserve the best.

Not Accepting Yourself Is Weak, Accepting Yourself Completely Is Strong (Weibo)

When you are young, you need other people to help you know yourself. The so-called “injury” means that you can’t accept a part of yourself presented by others, and you mistake this part of “yourself” as “yourself brought by others”. You always think that everything is the fault of others, and consider your disapproval of “yourself brought by others” as injury. This is exactly the weakness of the youth.

Through the baptism of the years, you are no longer easily vulnerable. The first reason is that you no longer need to know yourself through others; the second reason is that you have gradually established and accepted your own complete self-image, which will no longer be easily influenced by other people’s judgments or how others like you. This is what people call being strong.

Therefore, not accepting yourself is weak, accepting yourself completely is strong.

Autumn Vs. Summer Leaves (Weibo)

When you get along with others, treat yourself as a nobody; and when you get along with yourself, treat yourself as a somebody.

Those with too much “ego” actually value themselves in other people’ eyes. They will immediately fall into hell with a contemptuous look. They will always feel that others have ignored their own feelings and hurt their self-esteem. Such people despise themselves when they look at themselves, and they cannot see the value of their life without the eyes of others.

Life is like autumn leaves swaying in the wind. No matter how strong the summer wind is, it will not blow the vigorous green leaves. Autumn leaves losing their nutrients means they must fall. This has nothing to do with the wind.

Nearly 50 Principles Of Interpersonal Communication (Weibo)

1. The habit of being outspoken when you are a little close must be changed.

2. Replace “Do you understand?” with “Have I made myself clear?” more often.

3. If someone sends you a message, you must reply it. Even if you don’t want to, you can tell him so. Even if you use expressions or punctuation to euphemistically express yourself, it is not cold or ill-bred.

4. Don’t try to trade your secret for a friend.

5. I’ve seen tattooed men giving up their seats on buses, and I’ve seen beasts in suits and ties eating and drinking with embezzled money. In this era, it’s not necessarily a gentleman to dress beautifully and handsomely, and it’s not necessarily bad to dress very exposed. Don’t judge a book by its appearance.

6. The circles are different, so you don’t need to force them together.

7. Don’t tell a secret to the wind, the wind will blow it across the entire forest..

8. Don’t get to know anyone too quickly. Don’t think that you have many things in common or you are bosom friends who meet each other late when you first agree on a topic. Language is often false, what you experience together is true.

9. Don’t say what should not be said in front of people behind their back.

10. Use “thank you” instead of “thanks”. Although it is only one more word, it is much more sincere.

11. If a girl is popular among boys, it doesn’t mean much. If she is among girls, it’s really amazing.

12. A girl who smiles all day is always more lovable than a melancholy girl.

13. You should know how to be quiet when others are sleeping.

14. Don’t look at other people’s mobile phones without their consent.

15. When someone shows you a photo on their mobile phone, just look at it carefully, and don’t swipe to the next one.

16. Never get to know your girlfriend’s best friend, because her best friend doesn’t like you, you will break up, but her best friend likes you, you will still break up.

17. There are two kinds of people to trust: those who lend you money without saying anything; those who keep their promises to pay you back.

18. Don’t talk too deeply when you’re not well acquainted; don’t talk too harshly when you are.

19. McDull said: If there are things to say, don’t wait for the other party to comprehend, because the other person is not you, and don’t know what you want. Waiting until the end can only make you sad and disappointed, especially in love.

20. Speak with other people at three tenths, don’t show all your heart.

21. “What’s wrong” from most people’s mouth is just to satisfy their curiosity, and doesn’t mean they want to help you.

22. It is very impolite to break other people’s joy. You all must have experienced it.

23. When rejecting others, the simpler the better. It is obvious that others need your help, your long explanation turns into the feeling that you owe them. If you can help them, do so; if you can’t, refuse them. In interpersonal communication, simple and clear is sometimes the most appropriate. Only when you know how to refuse can you be free and easy.

24. Even if you meet a Mister or Miss Perfect, the eternal law of interpersonal relationship is to balance transactions. Never think about relying on anyone.

25. When someone tells you about something he likes, I hope you don’t disapprove it, because you are talking sincerely, you can’t say how bad the things they like are. Your straightforwardness is just selfish.

26. Go to someone else’s house, when they let you watch TV, you should leave. During the interview, if the boss’s feet keep shaking, it means that he is not interested in what you said; he stops shaking his legs, it means that he is now interested. The other party takes a deep breath while you are talking means that they don’t want to listen, and they are suppressing their emotions towards you.

27. Don’t make jokes with unfamiliar people. Neither with familiar ones.

28. Don’t show your dislike of someone in front of people you hate, and don’t speak ill of people you hate in front of people who know them.

29. Don’t make the first move with your close friend of the opposite sex.

30. Girls, don’t be too familiar with girls, I don’t know how to explain to you…

31. Don’t say cruel words to your friends. Harsh words hurt the most.

32. Please treat service industry personnel better.

33. Try to remember other people’s names when you meet for the first time.

34. Hold back the words that hurt others the most when you are extremely angry.

35. Don’t say cruel words and don’t do soft things.

36. Others can laugh at themselves, but you must never agree with them.

37. Most people don’t like outspoken comments.

38. Look a bit further, you won’t be sad.

39. Never believe in “women chase men, interlayer yarn” (which means that if a woman actively pursues men, the difficulty between the two is as simple as interlayer yarn).

40. Don’t complain every little things to others. There are very few people in this world who can empathize with you, most people are tired of listening, and a small number of people will promote it as a laughing stock everywhere.

41. When you are angry or full of negative emotions in your heart, don’t bring negative energy to others, let alone vent your anger. If you can’t do it, you’d better be alone when you are sad. Because not all people are your relatives and best friends, in others’ eyes, this is an act of spreading negative energy by you for no reason. As time goes by, others will be unwilling to approach you.

42. After you have a boyfriend, don’t cut off contact with all friends, because when your finally lose him, you will find out that you have nothing.

43. Never sneer at one’s efforts.

44. Tear it up if you want to. Don’t feel wronged.

(a) Treat a female/male pinup as an ordinary friend of the opposite sex, treat an ordinary friend of the opposite sex as a female/male pinup, your relationships will be much better.
(b) Don’t make excuses for doing something wrong, just admit your mistake.
(c) When sending a text message to a stranger, add “Sorry to disturb you”.
(d) When they stroll you online, don’t reply or discuss it. If you have to reply, tell them you are happy.

46. Don’t talk dirty to unfamiliar girls.

47. The most effective way to lose someone is to get too close.

48. Don’t force yourself to be a good person for the sake of relationships. Be a bad person who always does good things, not a good person who can’t do bad things.

49. No matter what fact I tell you, you won’t understand it when your mind doesn’t reach the same state or a level close to it, or when you haven’t experienced it. Or you might think you know this fact, but you actually don’t.